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Wednesday, July 12, 2017

Some secrets of happiness we forgot when we grew up

Without reading a single book on happiness, Elena knows the secrets:

Every sound is interesting.  So is every bug.

You're so at home in yourself that you cuddle up with people, teddy bears, and blankets--sometimes with your two sleepy fingers in your mouth, twisting your hair, watching a movie about horses.

You pick up chickens.  You aren't afraid.  You ride your horse at the rodeo.

You know what you like--and nobody need try to convince you otherwise.

"Is there anyone you don't like?" I ask.

"No," she says.  Then she remembers a little girl who's been mean to her lately.  She doesn't like her.  "Me and Mommy think she's a brat," she says.

"She'll probably grow out of it," I say.

"I guess so," she says doubtfully.

So today we went to the museum of Central Market.  We tasted samples of food and bought her a watermelon slice and blueberries and macaroni and cheese for lunch.  Then we spent a good half hour looking at flowers.  She was fascinated by lilies and irises and roses and carnations.  We brought home a few and she helped me arrange them in vases.

Seeing the world through a five-year-old's eyes makes me see everything as if for the first time.  Hanging out with this five-year-old makes me happy every time.


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